The controversy over the colour of #thedress

#thedress

Is it blue and black or is it white and gold? Well at least the majority are divided into two segments. Can’t vouch for the rest of the completely weird colours that some guess it to be.

Here’s an article that seems to explain it, even though I am still biased towards the colours white and gold.

http://www.wired.com/2015/02/science-one-agrees-color-dress/

Well, the debate in itself has brought excitement and confusion to many and has still yet to be completely settled. Guess the world is becoming more prone to focusing on smaller matters to get over the bigger matters.

Etiquette. How do you define it?

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Etiquette is something we emphasize on in various aspects of our life, be it with each other, or with strangers at home, office and everyday life.

It is something that sets the class apart is something most of us will agree to. But with this mindset have we forgotten the fact that some of them might lack it due to some hardships in their life or just because of the simplicity with which they live it.

Grading people for their appearances and mannerisms exhibited in a short period of time have made us less humane and more etiquetteless. Etiquette lies in trying to understand anothers position and covering for their flaws, before it is about appearances and mannerisms. We have come to see it in a different light and emphasize on its materialistic aspect to its emotional one.

Being of an understanding nature, and accepting people wholeheartedly, along with thier limitations is what needs to be taught as basic etiquette to society.

“Look through the others eyes, to feel their heart and actions”

Happiness cries in solitude..

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Goals set, we are ready to take on the world. On the way, we realize money is important too and we get distracted. Some stay distracted and go down a different path but very few come back to their original destiny. They keep going until one day, health gets in the way and now we know that health is also a priority. But its too late to be realizing that since now, we are far back on attaining something that was much more crucial to our life- happiness. Being happy with everything that is and was, as we travel through life in its tightly strung time period.

Happiness comes and goes. But it can come in different forms is what most of us are missing out on. It is not just the euphoric feeling that you get once in a while that defines happiness but small tiny details of our life. In this competitive cut throat century, we have come to seek happiness in ourselves more than others and this has lead to many disadvantages and wanting from a lot of individuals inhabiting this planet.

Happiness in oneself is secondary to happiness in others. We do not strive for the feeling of blessing but the feeling of self satisfaction. Yes, it is mandatory but not fulfilling in its own nature. We need to try harder in finding ourselves in others rather than isolate ourselves to our own worlds.

“Seek happiness where it shall be found; your exterior environment”